Last week I 25 male found out that my fiancé 24 female cheated with her boss I'm not sure if his age but he's in his mid-40s. I think I also know he's married and has three kids this happened last November on a work trip while out of town. They hooked up three times.
How do I know? Well her boss's wife messaged me on Facebook and told me. She's also provided me with screenshots of texts send emails between them. Graphic discussions about how they cheated on us. Also how they got over on us and joked about it. But then she'll tell him in the same text that she loves me so this can never come out!
The boss's wife who seems very sweet (when I met her at company functions before) is understandably enraged and heartbroken and is having him served with divorce papers tomorrow. She's also going to drop a friendly email to their HR department.
So I'm sitting here on my phone typing this while fiancé is across from me all the sofa on a computer planning a honeymoon trip for a wedding she has no idea it's never going to happen. She's completely oblivious to the fact that her life is going to fall apart tomorrow. I don't feel any sympathy at all since mine fell apart last week and every time I read those texts send emails I feel like someone is taking a knife in my heart.
Three years down the drain. I'm just thankful I found out before we got married I guess there's that to be thankful for. She has no idea but I took a vacation day tomorrow. After she leaves for work I'm going to go around my place and collect up all her stuff box it up and have it sitting by the door.
Then I have to figure out if I can get any of the money I've already laid out for the wedding back. It was supposed to happen in October but yeah that's not happening. And when she comes home I'm going to throw her out of my apartment and out of my life.
I've debated posting all those screenshots on her Facebook page but my sister talked me out of it. I also debated calling her parents. I feel bad for them as there are such great people and I'm going to miss her family. They've accepted me as one of their own and I don't know what they're going to say.
But I've decided that she can explain herself to them. I don't want to hear her excuses or her lies. At this point I just want her out of my life so I can figure out what the heck I'm going to do with the rest of my life.
Wow! The bomb is dropped around 8 or so my phone started going nuts calls from her with voicemails after each call I knew right away what's going on.
So I immediately called my sister to tell her that it was happening she told me to stay strong and if I wanted her to she would come to my place and sit with me so she's doing that.
Then I had a very difficult phone conversation with my ex's mother (Jesus I can't believe I have an ex now difficult because this woman has done nothing to deserve the pain I could hear in her voice her whole family has been nothing but accepting to me since day one .
I calmly as I could explain the situation to her mother and told her that I can't find it in myself to forgive this and that I'm going to be asking her to move out. Although she was very upset her mother seemed to understand why I feel this way she offered as well to come to my place that helped my ex gather things I think this is a pretty good idea.
Then I texted a few my closest friends about the situation I have been getting bombed with text from them since but have said as soon as I can I will talk to them but right now I am completely overwhelmed.
I listen to one voicemail for my ex and it was what I expected crying and asking me to call her because we really need to talk. I called her back and she didn't answer her so I started the text when she called me
Immediately she's telling me how sorry she is, why did I call her mom? Why did I involve other people? So I lost it it asked how she thinks I feel having to go get tested for STD’s because my fiancé cheated on me? Do you know how embarrassing that is? So at least she didn't deny what she did.
I told her she needs to come this afternoon and get her stuff out of my place. And that we are finished. She said we'll talk more later but I cut her off and said there's not a whole lot to talk about is there?
I also asked her how her and this guy could talk crap about me and his wife? Like they made fun of her for gaining weights after having three kids! This poor woman didn't deserve this. I didn't deserve this I also said something to her about not trying to say she felt pressured because the guy's her boss. Her texts show clearly that she was a more than willing participant in all this.
I guess she's got to meet with HR at work today and the whole place is gossiping about the two of them I can't feel sorry for either of them at this point I'm already emotionally drained it is not even 10 AM where I'm at.
So once she's done with her HR meeting I guess she's going to come here and get her stuff. I'm hoping it goes without much drama. My sister should be here and I hope her mom comes with her. My landlord also says she'll be around and she's also going to have my locks changed hopefully either this afternoon or tomorrow.
Well she's gone. She did show up with her mom and her best friend in tow and my sister was there. No screaming no yelling. She asked if I could just speak to her alone and I told her that wouldn't be a good idea. I said everything she needed to say she said it in her text messages with her boyfriend.
Of course the tears started and her mom said that they'd make this as quick as possible. So her and her friend went and got some of her stuff. Enough for a day or two. While she was gone her mom apologized to me and said she didn't raise her daughter this way and she asked if the guy is really married but I said yeah he's married. Her mom seems pretty shattered by this whole thing.
So as they got ready to leave I asked what about my ring since it doesn't seem to mean all that much to you. Her friend opened her mouth like she was going to say something at a shot or a look and she immediately shut her mouth. I wouldn't take any bet in Vegas that her friend didn't know what she did this whole time.
She covered her hand like she wasn't going to give me the ring and her mom said give him the goddamn ring so she handed her mom the ring and her mom gave it to me and again told me how sorry she is.
I just dropped it in my coffee table. I don't even want to look at it. I guess she's going to come back for the rest the first half tomorrow with her dad. But right now I'm so beaten down by all this I just want to lay down and sleep.
Thank You!
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