I TOOK REVENGE ON A CHEATING EX. DID I GO OVERBOARD?




So recently I found out that my ex had a flirtatious relationship at work with one of her managers at a restaurant she works at. This involved sexual dirty talking while on shift, sexual compliments and photo sharing and plans to hangout. I found out and told her not to text the other guy again and blocked him.

Well something told me to check her phone again and it didn't take Lassie full day for her to respond back to his texts on iMessage thus continuing the contact of cheating on me. What's worst is how she described getting caught by me to be hilariously funny and that she'll reach out to this guy when we're done. She made me sound like a doormat, a joke, an option…. as if everything we had was a play thing for her to play with.

Feeling emasculated embarrassed and surprised she could ever talk about me like this to another man. I posted her incriminating screenshots to her social media feeds (Instagram and Snapchat stories since I had access to the accounts) and send those screenshots to the guy she was cheating on me with at her boss at work since she was doing it with another manager at the restaurant. I also sent them to her mother as she was texting this guy the whole week I was helping her mother move to her new home.

The guy responded immediately and her boss and mother has yet to respond. She later called me back to apologize about the ordeal but the damage was already done it all broke the news to her about what I did and to screw her.

I think I went overboard as this is something I'd never done. Take revenge on someone by screwing them over.

Apparently she still has her job from the restaurant and she's doing damage control from the social media posts

She replied back to me letting me know the developments about what I posted learning before and that only a person like me would care to see that happen. The conversation turned in a really ugly name-calling match. The damage has already been done, being spiteful and I'm done talking with her. I'm going to desperately seek therapy and work on myself for the better.


I contacted the owner and showed him pictures of what happened. He legally said he can't involved for situations that happened outside a restaurant (The screenshots clearly show her and the manager flirting during the work day on the hour). I don't think he really wants to get involved. We live in an at will employment state, meaning the employer can fire you for any reason other than an illegal one. So as uncomfortable as it is for her the owner, the GM, the manager she cheated with unfortunately she'll keep her job but boy it will be uncomfortable working there.

The guy she managed to cheat on me with is a single father co-parenting is on with another woman. I found out who the woman was and showed her all the screenshots. Unfortunately she saw them texting each other for well over a year ago and that she told him to not text her anymore because she doesn't want him hanging out with anyone that doesn't like the mother of their son.

My ex-girlfriend knew her and was extremely rude and snobbish with her. They are not together anymore so she didn't know the exact length of their relationship however she knew they texted each other a lot. To no surprise, their relationship also ended because he was also cheating on her at the same restaurant with another woman that worked there while their son was extremely young.

For all the talk about how my ex-girlfriend didn't want to be a single mother and how she despised her father for cheating on her mother while she was pregnant she sure loved playing the role as the other woman

Thank You!


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